Your sexual orientation cannot dictate your choice of being pregnant. Lesbian women and couples around the world are now opting for shared motherhood – an experience that can be both satisfying and extremely emotional. It is also known as shared maternity and is achieved by the process known as reciprocal IVF. For the uninitiated, reciprocal IVF is the process where both women take part in the conception process – typically, one of them provides the eggs required for IVF, which is then fertilized in a lab with anonymous donor sperm, while other woman carries the pregnancy. With reciprocal IVF, lesbian couples can experience motherhood as normally as any regular couple.
When is reciprocal IVF method recommended?
There are many factors that come into play for IVF, and reciprocal IVF method is no different. The woman who wants to provide the eggs is first tested to find if she has a good ovarian reserve, while the other women is tested for uterine pathologies to ensure that she is fine to receive the embryos. In some cases, the roles can be reversed, as well.
How does it work?
There are many international clinics that offer reciprocal IVF for lesbian couples around the world, and some of the best ones are located in Spain. The process is an extremely effective one, but the first visit helps in understanding the situation of the couple and if they have considered other options, if available. A bunch of tests are then conducted to check everything as mentioned above.
For women receiving the embryos, hormone analysis is done to know about possible conditions, and additional tests are required to check for infectious diseases. Ultrasound is done for knowing the status of the uterus and mammography is required if the woman has a history of breast cancer or is over 39 years of age.
For the woman donating the eggs, hormone analysis is done to find about ovarian function, while screening is also done for infectious diseases. Ultrasound of the ovaries is a must, and mammography must be done in some cases.
Your doctor will explain what shared maternity and reciprocal IVF may mean for both you and your partner. You can ask the relevant questions related to the procedure, which may require some stay in the clinic or in the city. Retrieving the eggs usually takes the most time, while the woman carrying the pregnancy must be tested for the right time.